[tony]

Just wondered if being around one person makes anyone ill?

Everytime I am near my mum, just to look at her or hear the sound of her voice, withing seconds I can't breath and am feeling like I am going to be physically sick, the only way I can handle it is to cut myself, although nothing too bad it just helps me cope, sometimes drinking helps,

Just wondered if anyone else gets this? And how you cope with it?

thanks

[Paul]

tony, on Jun 6 2008, 04:18 PM, said:

Just wondered if being around one person makes anyone ill?

Everytime I am near my mum, just to look at her or hear the sound of her voice, withing seconds I can't breath and am feeling like I am going to be physically sick, the only way I can handle it is to cut myself, although nothing too bad it just helps me cope, sometimes drinking helps,

Just wondered if anyone else gets this? And how you cope with it?

thanks

that is not the best way to handle your emotions You need to find another outlet. I am sorry that you feel that way. However, hurting yourself as a response of having an issue with someone else is not the way to go about it. I can not personally say that I have ever felt that strongly ill around someone I can not handle. I think you should try to change your thinking and watch your response because if you can change how you think about the situation your emotions will naturally alter with it. People can change and you don't want to have these scares on yourself because in the future you could look back and think what was I doing? BE STRONG!!!