[pinksam]

Benjamin

Thank you so very much for taking time to help me. The things you wrote gave me much food for thought and i have eventually, after years of knowin deep down, admitted to myself and my GP that my past experiences are actually ruining my life.

Your insight is incredible and i have read many stories on this forum that give me help on many other issues too.

I have had a long talk to my GP who has referred me to a counsellor and though i know that i have a very long hard painful road ahead of me, which quite frankly scares me to death, i know that i have to walk that road in order to reach the place i need to be!!

A lot of my problems are down to the insecurity of losing my dad, not once but twice, but there are also other abuse issues that i have been forced to face up to. For the first time in my life i can actually admit that my step brother sexually abused me and though when i think this or say it i fall to pieces, it is now time to deal with it and move on.

This forum has given me the courage to face things and know that " i am good enough".............i am not quite there yet but i an pretty sure with the right guidance i will be one day.

I will definitely be buying your book. You are a very clever and special man Mr Fry and i thank you for setting me on the road to saving my life!!

Sam
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[Benjamin Fry]

Iím very sorry to hear about your sexual abuse. That is really hard to deal with emotionally. I hope that you can get the help that you will need to work through it. It is very courageous of you to begin to do so. And thank you for your positive feedback.