[Josh]

Hello guys, I just want to share with you problems I have on with my friend,

here's the story:

I have a friend, (a girl) that i don't know what it is called, but we act like were a couple, by the way were Seniors HS students, one time i consulted our guidance counselor, and she told me that i should consider ignoring feelings for her because 1st, were just friends, 2nd she has a family problem, but as time goes by, we both admitted that we like each other, now here's the thing, in her previous school, (because she is a transferee) a personnel at that school (also a girl, err, woman) likes my friend, even though the personnel is married, and she also has a kid. I asked my friend on whether she is considering the personnel, because the personnel admitted to my friend that she loves her (my friend) and my friend's parents knew what was going on with the personnel and my friend, so they've cut the connection between the two of them, resulting in my friend borrowing my cellular phone to text her, and my friend told me that the reason why she can't leave the woman, is because "she is like a 2nd mother to me, and we've gone through rough times", i understand she feels that way, with that i tend to get jealous. But i asked my friend, she said "were just friends, and that's it" i trust her that they will be just "friends" but at times, my friend tends to get moody, and when i asked her why, because the woman kept or blamed my friend for the woman's situation with her family, my friend cries, and i seem to be carried away when she doesn't pay attention to me, and the result is i get mad and don't pay attention to her either.

Now my problem is, what should i do when times like that occur? like when they quarrel at each other, also if possible i would like to also cut the connection between the two of them, but i though that, that won't make my friend happy, so i allow her to use my cellphone, despite her parents disapproval of doing so, (her parents doesn't know that she's using cellphone to text or call the said personnel). That's it, thanks! hope i you guys can help me, cause i really don't know what to do, our guidance counselor can't help me because i'm afraid of sharing it to her, cause she might tell the faculty teachers and tell to my friend's parents.