[tcaro]

I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 years. We are still as much in love as the first year we were together. We have the same interests, hobbies, ideals, and passions. We started dating my first year of college so we never got too serious for the first 4 years. Last year we moved in together and things have been great. I have a very comfortable job that I love and I wanted her to be more motivated, go back to school and have a stable life without me. Recently she has started a photography company, while going to school and just got a better full time job. We get along, have great communication, and can sort out most issues quickly. So here's the problem, having said all that, I really want to marry her and do kids and the whole thing, but I have always been in serious relationships, never really been single. I'm scared that we get married and I will wake up one day resenting her. I have talked to her about taking a break and sorting out what I want. I know I want to be with her, just can't commit 100% to her. I'm not sure what else is holding me back. I don't think there is anyone out there that's better for me, I haven't met any other girl that I would even consider dating. She knows she is ready to be with me and a break would be too hard for her. She would just want to break up and move on. I'm terrified of losing her, but I can't get past the fact that I'm missing being on my own and sorting out my own stuff. Please help.